Did You SHOW Her She Was The Only One For You or Did You Just Tell Her In Passing?

     I am SO sick of guys saying, "I liked you SOOO much, bla, bla, bla, bla, BLA!" But they did nothing! NOTHING! Do you know how many guys SAY they like a girl? Say they'll do ANYTHING? SAY if you just give me a chance...

     I have given guys chances and they've been like, "Oh....yea, about that....um, nevermind. Bye." I've given guys chances and they've kissed my feet and treat me like a queen. -What's the problem with that? I want someone to love me and someone to love, not someone who's going to worship me before they really know me. I want fans (of my books) for that. I want someone to fall in love with. Not someone who's already head over heels in love with me waiting for me to get there with them.

    Do you know how many guys I deal with CONSTANTLY who ask me to give them a chance. Who say, "Just tell me what to do!" I have guys at work constantly asking me, "When are you going to let me take you out?" While saying that to many other girls. If a guy REALLY likes me he'll find a way to prove it instead of just suggesting that we should hang out or that he wants to take me out.

     Do something that sets you apart from all of the rest. Be the one who doesn't let me fall. Do something that no one else has. Don't give up. I know they're movies, but that shit works....Be Noah and jump on the Ferris Wheel and say you won't get down until she says she'll go on a date with you. Send her flowers every day at work till she says she'll go out with you. HAND-write her a letter telling her just exactly how you feel about her. Leave a note on her car with a rose. If she tells you she love 50's music, then buy a cd and play it and dance with her. DO SOMETHING!!!

     Don't just say, "I really like you and we should date and you should give me a chance." Natalie Portman's character, Alice, in Closer said it best,

"Where is this love? I can't see it, I can't touch it. I can't feel it. I can hear it. 

I can hear some words, but I can't do anything with your easy words."

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If you like a girl to where you're on the verge of loving her, then maybe you should do something more about it than just telling her you like her and want to date her and letting her slip through your fingers....just a suggestion!